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Tuesday, March 06, 2007

To Love or Not to Love?

by: Rick Valens
Have you ever fallen in love with two different persons at the same time? Falling in love with two different persons whom both have the same feeling for you too? Well, there is actually nothing wrong with that. In fact I would say that it is something very normal, sometimes even falling for more than two persons for some.

We are afterall human beings, creatures of great emotions. It is just natural for one to develop a liking for the opposite sex, especially when the both are getting along very well. Sometimes, it is just so hard for us to control our feeling and nevertheless, it has always been human nature to be greedy. It is always good to be able to have the best of both worlds isn’t it? But well, things are usually just not possible. At the end of the day, you just have to make your choice, to decide for yourself, your one and only love whom that person to be.

To love or not to love, it is your choice. Think of it this way. In our path of life, we are always faced with choices. Choices that we have to make decisions over; decisions that will affect our life. At circumstances, even having to make immediate decision on the spot, decisions concerning of life and death. Sometimes we made the right decision and sometimes the wrong. But no matter what our decisions might have brought so far; we accepted them, didn’t we?

That is life. There is not way the world is going to stop moving just for you. To turn left or to turn right, to move forward or to turn back, you just have to make up your mind. I should believe that you will not choose to be stuck at the cross junction for your whole life?

Well, a game of chances and uncertainties life has nevertheless always been. If you never play you can never win. You have just got to make your choice, to decide where to place your bet. You can of course choose to give up, not to risk your bet. You always have your choice. Life is just so full of choices, remember? But well, will you later regret giving up that chance when you have it?

The same goes for love. Between the both, you just got to decide whom you really like more. Well, having choices is always better than not having any at all, right?
I should also believe that you are not going to give up that chance of even placing your bet? I know it is going to be hard but do just give yourself sometime. Follow where your heart goes. Between the both, there is definitely one whom you will actually like more.

Ok, just picture this scenario; there are this two musical concert, both a once in a lifetime concert. Missing it, you will never get the chance to see it again. You have been dying to catch the shows all these while. However for such a coincidence, they are been held at the same timing on the same day. Again, I suppose you will not just give up the chance of catching both shows altogether? Between the two, you will definitely choose one right?

Finally, to get to fully enjoy the show, which you had decided upon, you just got to forget about that disappointment from missing the other show. But well, more often than not, once you found yourself in the musical concert, chances are you will be totally captured by that spectacular ambience, enjoying yourself so much, totally forgotten about any disappointment that you earlier had.

Now where we are discussing about love, it is just the same. Many at times, we just can’t bear to give up on what we already have, struggling so hard within ourselves. In the end, we might jollywell end up with nothing at all. In life, we gain some we lose some. It’s no use holding on so hard to something, which you know will not come out with anything. When you have to give up, you have to. When you have to choose, you just have to.

Just like choosing between the two musical concerts, follow where your heart goes. Once you made up your mind, everything will just seem so much clearer. Slowly, your path of love will reveal its way for you. Will it lead to happiness for you? Well again, we wouldn’t know. But if we never try we will never know. At least, I should believe that you will be much happier than to be still stuck at the cross junction, lost for direction?

Remember, the world is not going to stop turning just for you. So is with love. The two persons will not just keep waiting for you. Wishy-washy? You might just end up with nothing at all.

Happiness won’t come passing by twice, cherish it when you have it.

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Rick Valens

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The Best Way to Pick Up a Girl

by: Paul Kyriazi
The Best Way to Pick Up a Girl
Copyright © 2005 Paul Kyriazi
How to Live the James Bond Lifestyle
http://www.bondlife.com/



You see her across the room. Ah, so attractive. But nobody to
introduce her to you. "Ah, I'll do a James Bond on her," you
think. Now what was Bond's first words to Pussy Galore? "I
must be dreaming." No, that won't work. How about singing
"Underneath the Mango Tree" to her as Bond did to Honey Rider
in "Dr. No". Ah? No!

Well, what's left? You'll just have to go up and talk to her,
if it's a situation where you won't see her again. But it's
always safe to assume that she has a boyfriend that can squeeze
the stuffings out of a gold ball. That aside, take a chance
and make polite conversation. What's the worst that can happen.
She says, "I'm sorry, I'm not available." and you save the
time and money of a date with her. Like George Burns says,
"When a beautiful woman says "no" to me, it's a relief.

If you know that you will see her again, like at your university,
your job, or working at a restaurant, you can have another shot
at her and use the shy man's approach to getting a date.

"You farm boys don't make a pitch, you just shy your way into
position," Ann Margaret says to Pat Boone in "State Fair".

Okay, here it is. Instead of asking her to dinner or out on a
date which has romance intended, get some tickets to a concert
or event first, and then with tickets in hand say, "I just
happened to have tickets to this event. If you'd like to go
with me, I'd be happy to take you." This way the subject is
the event. Talk about the person singing at the concert,
instead of if the two of you could hit it off or not. She can
easily say yes or no, or ask more questions about you or the
time and place of the event. She doesn't have the pressure of
turning you down, so she can just turn the event down and that
will be that. And if by chance she can't make that date, but
is interested in you, she can start talking about going out
another time.

I've strongly suggested this "ticket" technique to both men and
women who are infatuated with someone at work, or at shop, or
restaurant, and have no idea how to make an approach. If the
person is available, they usually say yes to an invitation.
After all, it's just going to an event. It's not really a
date.

I used this "ticket" technique in college to ask out a beautiful
stranger. I was very shy, but was "in love" from a distance so
I had to take some kind of scary attraction. Her name was Cindy
and I often saw her in the student lounge surrounded by guys.
It took weeks of watching her before I could catch her walking
alone, and ask her if she'd like to go see the reserved seat
Cinerama showing of "Grand Prix". She said, "Well, I don't
know you, but if you come and talk to me sometimes and I get
to know you, then maybe."

So in the next days I made an attempts at getting in a few words
with her as she talked with her friends. Then I found out she
was taking the film appreciation class that I had taken a
semester earlier. So I pushed the teacher to show my new 16mm
action film in the class that she was in. He fiqured I had a
secret motive because he said he'd show it in the morning class,
but I said it had to be shown in the afternoon class (the one
Cindy was in). Finally, he agreed.

I not only directed the film, but had a part in it where I used
my newly learned karate and hoped she would be impressed. The
film went over great with the class cheering and applauding.
As she was leaving the class I said to her, "Well, do you know
me well enough now?" She said, "To go out with you? I replied,
"Yes." She smiled and nodded her head yes.

So don't "ask her out". Don't "take her to dinner". Get some
tickets, and maybe she'll answer you like Cameron Diaz does in
"Charlie's Angels". "Tickets? I love tickets!"


"How to Live the James Bond Lifestyle"



Contact him at http://www.BondLife.com

Sex, Love and Poly-Behavioral Addiction

by: James Slobodzien
Proposing a New Diagnosis and Theory for Patients with Multiple Addictions
By James Slobodzien, Psy.D., CSAC


Experts in the field of addictions are presently purporting that between 3 and 6 percent of the world’s population (193 to 386 million people) are presently affected by a sexual dependency or compulsivity (Carnes, 2005). Sexual dependency is a diagnosable and treatable disease, which today is generally, regarded in about the same way that alcoholism and drug addiction (chemical dependency) was regarded 40 years ago. Even so, there still exists a wide range of understandable misunderstandings about compulsive sexual acting out, created out of ignorance about the nature of sexual addiction, and supported and perpetuated by the multibillion dollar pornography industry.

Sexual Dependency - is a global term that covers a wide range of maladaptive and self-defeating behavior patterns and relationships such as:

1. Love Addiction – a disorder in which individuals repeatedly become involved in enmeshed, intense, codependent relationships, even when those relationships or partners are destructive;
2. Romance Addiction - a disorder in which individuals become obsessed with the intrigue and the pursuit of romance and thrive on the thrill of the chase, but find it impossible to sustain a committed, intimate relationship with another person;
3. Sexual Anorexia – a disorder in which individuals become dominated and obsessed with the emotional, physical, and mental task of avoiding sex; and
4. Sex Addiction – a disorder in which individuals become obsessed with sexually-related, compulsive self-defeating maladaptive behavior.

But can one really be addicted to love as the popular 80’s song proclaims? In a recent research study, (Aron, A. 2005) published in the June issue of the Journal of Neurophysiology, researchers used functional MRI to watch the real-time brain activity of 17 college students (10 women, seven men), all of whom were in the early weeks or months of new love. These researchers concluded that, love may vie for the same real estate in the brain as drug addiction. “Early love, rooted as it is in the caudate nucleus, is all about addiction.” "It is a drug addiction." "It's certainly got some of the main characteristics of drug addiction -- as with drugs, once you fall in love you need that person more and more, so much so that, after a while, you have to marry them. There are other things, too -- real dependence, personality changes, withdrawal symptoms." “And just like the need for cocaine or heroin, love can make people do crazy, sometimes dangerous things.” According to Aron (2005), the findings help explain instances where people fall in love with people they aren’t even sexually attracted to; or why others can feel equally strong, sudden emotion for a newborn child or even God.

So does this mean that all people who are newly in love have an addiction? Are all men who look at pornography addicted? Are all women who read romance novels addicted? Are all people who avoid sex considered sexual anorexics? No, no, no, and no. Then how can we differentiate between addiction and healthy relationships? Like other forms of addictive diseases and lifestyle disorders such as chemical dependency, pathological gambling, eating disorders, and religious addiction -

Sexual dependency is characterized by an addictive cycle of:

1. Obsession or preoccupation;
2. Ritualization;
3. Compulsive behaviors;
4. Loss of control and despair; and
5. Shame and guilt that perpetuates a maladaptive belief system of impaired thinking and unmanageability.

Typically, sexual addictive patterns are considered pathological problems when issues concerning sexual behaviors become the focus of life, causing feelings of shame, guilt, and embarrassment with related symptoms of depression and anxiety that cause significant maladaptive social and/ or occupational impairment in functioning. Addicts don’t use sex for affection or recreation, but for the management of anxiety and/ or emotional pain.

We must consider that some people develop dependencies on certain life-functioning activities such as sex that can be just as life threatening as drug addiction and just as socially and psychologically damaging as alcoholism.

Sexual addiction takes many forms with various levels of severity to include:
1. Controversial behaviors (obsessions with pornography, and sex with strangers to engaging in cyber-sex);
2. Unacceptable behaviors (exhibitionism, voyeurism, indecent phone calls); and
3. Profound Sex offender behaviors (rape, incest, and child molestation).

Though solitary forms of this addiction may not be overtly risky, they can be part of a pattern of distorted thinking and identity conflict that can escalate to involve harming the self and others. An example of a Sexual Disorder (NOS) or Not Otherwise Specified in the DSM-IV-TR, (2000) includes: distress about a pattern of repeated sexual relationships involving a succession of lovers who are experienced by an individual only as things to be used. (It should be noted that the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders has never used the word “addiction” to describe any of its disorders).

The defining elements of this kind of addiction are its secrecy and escalating nature, often resulting in diminished judgment and self-control (Carnes, 1994).

Brief History of Sex Addiction

In 1976, a suburban hospital administrator asked Dr. Patrick Carnes to start an experimental program for chemically dependent families. The theoretical constructs of the program originated in general systems theory, especially as it applied to families and the 12-steps of Alcoholics Anonymous. One of the many factors which stood out from a family perspective was that the addictive compulsivity had many forms other than alcohol and drug abuse including overeating, gambling, shoplifting, and sexuality. Members of groups like Overeaters Anonymous and Gamblers Anonymous had already pioneered in applying the 12-steps to other addictions so the Family Renewal Center extended its programming based on the 12-steps, to sexual addiction.

In 1983, Dr. Patrick Carnes formally introduced the concept of sexual addiction to the world in a text entitled “Out of the Shadows.” Since then the field of sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behavior has developed dramatically. Terms such as addiction, compulsivity, hyper-sexuality, and “Don Juanism,” all have been used to describe what generically could be called "out of control sexual behavior." Regardless of its name, clinicians from all fields agree that a syndrome exists in which individuals have a sense that they have lost control over their sexual behavior.

According to the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH), sexual addiction is a persistent and escalating pattern or patterns of sexual behaviors acted out despite increasingly negative consequences to self or others. The fundamental nature of all addiction is the addicts' experience of helplessness and powerlessness over an obsessive-compulsive behavior, resulting in their lives becoming unmanageable. The addict may be out of control. They may experience extreme emotional pain and shame. They may repeatedly fail to control their behavior. They may suffer one or more of the following consequences of an unmanageable lifestyle: a deterioration of some or all supportive relationships; difficulties with work, financial troubles; and physical, mental, and/ or emotional exhaustion which sometimes leads to psychiatric problems and hospitalization. Addictions tend to arise from the same backgrounds: families with co-dependency including multiple addictions; lack of effective parenting; and other forms of physical, emotional and sexual trauma in childhood.

The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH, 2005) report that the symptoms of sexual compulsivity often accompany other addictive behaviors:

Alcohol and Drug Addiction – Alcohol and drugs alter libido, enhancing it early in drug addiction and inhibiting it later. There is a pattern in cocaine addiction of selling sexual favors for cocaine. As the cost of drug addiction increases, the drug addict usually can't afford the drug from ordinary job income, and must resort to (either/or) stealing, drug dealing or prostitution to support their habit. Alcohol and many drugs cause blackouts or amnesia during the drug using experience, and if sex is coupled with that drug using experience then the details of the sexual experience may not be remembered.

Food Addiction - Sexual anorexia or pathological self-denial of healthy sex is a frequent accompaniment of overeating and anorexia nervosa.

Pathological Gambling - The lifestyle of the gambler often includes hyper-sexuality, where both compulsions feed the false sense of self-esteem of the addict.

Religious Addiction - Compulsive religiosity sometimes accompanies sexual addiction as the sex addict is seeking religion to lessen guilt and shame. The beginnings of compulsive religiosity may signal the onset of a period of sexual anorexia.

Multiple Addictions

Since it is impossible to expect treatment for one addiction to be beneficial when other addictions co-exist, the initial therapeutic intervention for any addiction needs to include an assessment for other addictions. National surveys revealed that a very high correlation exists between sexual addiction and other substance abuse and behavioral addictions. Sexual addicts who have reported experiencing multiple addictions include sexual addiction and:
§ Chemical dependency (42%)
§ Eating disorder (38%)
§ Compulsive working (28%)
§ Compulsive spending (26%)
§ Compulsive gambling (5%)
Poor Prognosis

We have come to realize today more than any other time in history that the treatment of lifestyle diseases and addictions are often a difficult and frustrating task for all concerned. Repeated failures abound with all of the addictions, even with utilizing the most effective treatment strategies. But why do 47% of patients treated in private addiction treatment programs (for example) relapse within the first year following treatment (Gorski, T., 2001)? Have addiction specialists become conditioned to accept failure as the norm? There are many reasons for this poor prognosis. Some would proclaim that addictions are psychosomatically- induced and maintained in a semi-balanced force field of driving and restraining multidimensional forces. Others would say that failures are due simply to a lack of self-motivation or will power. Most would agree that lifestyle behavioral addictions are serious health risks that deserve our attention, but could it possibly be that patients with multiple addictions are being under diagnosed (with a single dependence) simply due to a lack of diagnostic tools and resources that are incapable of resolving the complexity of assessing and treating a patient with multiple addictions?

Diagnostic Delineation

Thus far, the DSM-IV-TR has not delineated a diagnosis for the complexity of multiple behavioral and substance addictions. It has reserved the Poly-substance Dependence diagnosis for a person who is repeatedly using at least three groups of substances during the same 12-month period, but the criteria for this diagnosis do not involve any behavioral addiction symptoms. In the Psychological Factors Affecting Medical Condition’s section (DSM-IV-TR, 2000); maladaptive health behaviors (e.g., unsafe sexual practices, excessive alcohol, drug use, and over eating, etc.) may be listed on Axis I, only if they are significantly affecting the course of treatment of a medical or mental condition.

Since successful treatment outcomes are dependent on thorough assessments, accurate diagnoses, and comprehensive individualized treatment planning, it is no wonder that repeated rehabilitation failures and low success rates are the norm instead of the exception in the addictions field, when the latest DSM-IV-TR does not even include a diagnosis for multiple addictive behavioral disorders. Treatment clinics need to have a treatment planning system and referral network that is equipped to thoroughly assess multiple addictive and mental health disorders and related treatment needs and comprehensively provide education/ awareness, prevention strategy groups, and/ or specific addictions treatment services for individuals diagnosed with multiple addictions. Written treatment goals and objectives should be specified for each separate addiction and dimension of an individuals’ life, and the desired performance outcome or completion criteria should be specifically stated, behaviorally based (a visible activity), and measurable.

New Proposed Diagnosis

To assist in resolving the limited DSM-IV-TRs’ diagnostic capability, a multidimensional diagnosis of “Poly-behavioral Addiction,” is proposed for more accurate diagnosis leading to more effective treatment planning. This diagnosis encompasses the broadest category of addictive disorders that would include an individual manifesting a combination of substance abuse addictions, and other obsessively-compulsive behavioral addictive behavioral patterns to pathological gambling, religion, and/ or sex / pornography, etc.). Behavioral addictions are just as damaging - psychologically and socially as alcohol and drug abuse. They are comparative to other life-style diseases such as diabetes, hypertension, and heart disease in their behavioral manifestations, their etiologies, and their resistance to treatments. They are progressive disorders that involve obsessive thinking and compulsive behaviors. They are also characterized by a preoccupation with a continuous or periodic loss of control, and continuous irrational behavior in spite of adverse consequences.

Poly-behavioral addiction would be described as a state of periodic or chronic physical, mental, emotional, cultural, sexual and/ or spiritual/ religious intoxication. These various types of intoxication are produced by repeated obsessive thoughts and compulsive practices involved in pathological relationships to any mood-altering substance, person, organization, belief system, and/ or activity. The individual has an overpowering desire, need or compulsion with the presence of a tendency to intensify their adherence to these practices, and evidence of phenomena of tolerance, abstinence and withdrawal, in which there is always physical and/ or psychic dependence on the effects of this pathological relationship. In addition, there is a 12 - month period in which an individual is pathologically involved with three or more behavioral and/ or substance use addictions simultaneously, but the criteria are not met for dependence for any one addiction in particular (Slobodzien, J., 2005). In essence, Poly-behavioral addiction is the synergistically integrated chronic dependence on multiple physiologically addictive substances and behaviors (e.g., using/ abusing substances - nicotine, alcohol, & drugs, and/or acting impulsively or obsessively compulsive in regards to gambling, food binging, sex, and/ or religion, etc.) simultaneously.

Conclusion

Considering the wide range of sexual behaviors in our world today, one should always take into account an individual’s ethnic, cultural, religious, and social background prior to making any clinical judgments, and it would be wise to not over-pathologize in this area of Sexual Dependency. However, since successful treatment outcomes are dependent on thorough assessments, accurate diagnoses, and comprehensive individualized treatment planning - poly-behavioral addiction needs to be identified to effectively treat the complexity of multiple behavioral and substance addictions.

Since chronic lifestyle diseases and disorders such as diabetes, hypertension, alcoholism, drug and behavioral addictions cannot be cured, but only managed - how should we effectively manage poly-behavioral addiction?

The Addiction Recovery Measurement System (ARMS) is proposed utilizing a multidimensional integrative assessment, treatment planning, treatment progress, and treatment outcome measurement tracking system that facilitates rapid and accurate recognition and evaluation of an individual’s comprehensive life-functioning progress dimensions. The ARMS hypothesis purports that there is a multidimensional synergistically negative resistance that individual’s develop to any one form of treatment to a single dimension of their lives, because the effects of an individual’s addiction have dynamically interacted multi-dimensionally. Having the primary focus on one dimension is insufficient. Traditionally, addiction treatment programs have failed to accommodate for the multidimensional synergistically negative effects of an individual having multiple addictions, (e.g. nicotine, alcohol, and obesity, etc.). Behavioral addictions interact negatively with each other and with strategies to improve overall functioning. They tend to encourage the use of tobacco, alcohol and other drugs, help increase violence, decrease functional capacity, and promote social isolation. Most treatment theories today involve assessing other dimensions to identify dual diagnosis or co-morbidity diagnoses, or to assess contributing factors that may play a role in the individual’s primary addiction. The ARMS’ theory proclaims that a multidimensional treatment plan must be devised addressing the possible multiple addictions identified for each one of an individual’s life dimensions in addition to developing specific goals and objectives for each dimension.

Partnerships and coordination among service providers, government departments, and community organizations in providing addiction treatment programs are a necessity in addressing the multi-task solution to poly-behavioral addiction. I encourage you to support the addiction programs in America, and hope that the (ARMS) resources can assist you to personally fight the War on poly-behavioral addiction.

For more info see:
Poly-Behavioral Addiction and the Addictions Recovery Measurement System (ARMS)
By James Slobodzien, Psy.D. CSAC at:

http://www.geocities.com/drslbdzn/Behavioral_Addictions.html

National Council on Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity
P.O. Box 725544
Atlanta, GA 31139
(770) 541-9912
http://www.ncsac.org
Sexual Addiction Resources
http://www.sexhelp.com

James Slobodzien, Psy.D. CSAC, is a Hawaii licensed psychologist and certified substance abuse counselor who earned his doctorate in Clinical Psychology. The National Registry of Health Service Providers in Psychology credentials Dr. Slobodzien. He has over 20-years of mental health experience primarily working in the fields of alcohol/ substance abuse and behavioral addictions in medical, correctional, and judicial settings. He is an adjunct professor of Psychology and also maintains a private practice as a mental health consultant.

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James Slobodzien, Psy.D., CSAC, is a Hawaii licensed psychologist and certified substance abuse counselor who earned his doctorate in Clinical Psychology. The National Registry of Health Service Providers in Psychology credentials Dr. Slobodzien. He has over 20-years of mental health experience primarily working in the fields of alcohol/ substance abuse and behavioral addictions in medical, correctional, and judicial settings. He is an adjunct professor of Psychology and also maintains a private practice as a mental health consultant

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Monday, September 11, 2006

Satellite Phones Or Cellular Phones. Which Should You Buy?

By David Dorrough

Today, there is a huge selection of cell phones and cell phone providers to choose from. For most people the normal cell phone is adequate for their needs. However, if you travel a lot, particularly overseas or offshore, you will quickly find that the cell phone you bought doesn't work because there aren't any towers nearby, as in the case of traveling offshore. If you travel overseas, your cell phone won't work there either as they have their own dedicated networks.



If you are a business person and you find that you travel all over the globe, or if you find yourself offshore frequently because of work or leisure, the ownership of a satellite phone is essential for communications with your friends and family back home.



Today's satellite phones are economical to purchase, though the calling plans will be much more expensive compared to traditional cell phone plans, but they will work just about everywhere. With a network of approximately 70 satellites encircling the globe and growing, they provide coverage to most of the planet except the most remote areas. Having a satellite phone will give you peace of mind that you can reach family or work associates at the push of a button.



Older satellite phones were bulky. Today's satellite phones are much more compact, priced affordably, and best of all, the reception is crystal clear.



Eventually, the industry will be composed entirely of satellite phones and providers as the traditional cell phone becomes outdated. Just like VCR's are being replaced with DVD players, and the eight track tape before that. Industry leaders are lobbying hard to push their agenda by convincing political leaders and investors to consider satellite phones as the next generation in mobile phone technology for the average consumer. Eventually, every corner of the globe, even the most remote regions of the planet, will have access to this technology as more satellites are put into service.



This technology is much more reliable than traditional cell phones. Signals never get dropped as you constantly are within reach of the satellite's coverage. Eventually, I envision satellite phones and PC's to start integrating their technologies even more than they currently have, just like cell phones have done. Imagine having a satellite phone that has crystal clear reception and reliability, along with the capability to access the Internet anywhere on the planet. Currently, satellite phones require the use of a laptop to access the Internet.



Some of the leading players in this industry are Iridium, Inmarset, and Globalstar. They require an annual service fee that ranges anywhere from several hundred dollars to thousands of dollars, depending on how many minutes you get in your plan. Extras, like voice mail, data transfer, and fax capabilities cost extra. So does roaming. Your plans have a fixed rate as long as you are within your plan's coverage area. For example, if your coverage area includes North America and you travel to Europe, roaming charges will apply, but at least you will have access.



The calling plans of most satellite phones usually will cost anywhere from $.09 per minute to $1.50 per minute on average. The more minutes that you sign up for will determine your rate. The more minutes you have, the lower the per minute rate will be.



These costs are usually out of the range of most consumers, though eventually these costs will decrease as the technology becomes more widely used, as with any new technology. However, for the person that usually would require this kind of service, the costs should be tax deductible which will help tremendously.



Another option to consider is renting. Most dealers usually have a plan that costs around $5 to $7 per day. This is considerably cheaper and an excellent alternative if you only need satellite coverage for a week or so while you're on that overseas vacation.



Serious thought and consideration should go into the purchase of a cell phone or a satellite phone, but if you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, the knowledge that you are connected to the rest of the world with your satellite phone is immeasurable.



About the Author: David Dorrough is a retired educator, having taught at several leading universities. Today, he is active as a free lance writer and internet marketer. For more resources on cell phones and satellite phones, you should visit his website at http://www.cell-phones.consumers-choice.net



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MCSE Certification: Another Step To Expertise

By Paul MacIver

M.C.S.E. (Microsoft Certified Systems Engineer) certification is recognized worldwide. This examination is primarily meant for engineers and coders who work in the infrastructure domain. Until recently, it was easier to get a job as a Network Engineer, Systems Engineer, or an I. T. Manager, if one had taken an MCSE certified examination.



Examination format:



The MCSE examination is not easy to pass. One has to take seven exams before being certified as an MCSE professional. These examinations include four networking exams, one client operating system exam, a design exam and an elective.



Various topics of the examination include "Managing and Maintaining a Microsoft Windows Server 2003 Environment, Installing, Configuring and Administering Microsoft Windows XP Professional and Designing Security for a Microsoft Windows Server 2003 Network".



Now one can specialize in two fields, Messaging and Security. For both specializations, additional papers need to be studied.



How to study for MCSE Certification:



Studying for MCSE certification is easy, as there are many online books and videos etc available. Upon registration, Microsoft also provides you with some material. There are many types of software providing real time simulation of the examination, which is very helpful for examination practice.



Most tests come with detailed questions and answers as well as proper analysis. This helps a lot in preparation of the examinations. There are many prep kits as well as study notes available for preparation on the internet.



There are some cheat softwares available on the internet as well, but the entire purpose of taking an examination is defeated if one uses this method to pass the examination.



Benefits of MCSE Certification:



This certification is more helpful for people who have had some sort of experience, rather than those who have just started working or are still in college. In the dotcom boom, many people who had little or no relevant experience took this certification, which has diluted the value a little bit.



Yet it remains a mark of knowledge and expertise in Microsoft Windows technology. Also, once a person is certified, he/she can take advantage of the technical product details directly from the website. An MCSE logo, certificate, transcript, wallet card, and lapel pin identify the certified person as an MCSE professional. Microsoft also invites the professionals to special events whenever possible.



Popularity of MCSE Certification:



This certification is quite popular compared to other certifications. This is due to the expertise gained, the ease of studying for it, and taking the examination. In addition, Microsoft software is used so much that any expertise is bound to be very helpful in the work of techies.



MCSE certification may not immediately get anybody a job, but in the case of a tie, it will surely help recruiters decide in favor of a certified professional. It is a hygiene factor now - one that nobody wants to avoid.



Any professional who has some experience in server management and allied fields will gain hugely from this certification. This certification increases the knowledge base, and also gives the stamp of being an expert in the relevant technologies.



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Advanced FTP Hosting For Designers, Architects, Printers Etc.

By Mike Jewson

Irrespective of their business volume, companies are registering for FTP hosting services to make client communication efficient and secure. If you are looking for a smart option to send large files over the Internet then it is recommended to register for advanced FTP hosting services. Advanced FTP hosting service provides necessary support to transfer large digital files safely from one computer to another via Internet. Email service is not sufficient for business process to exchange vast pool of information, nor it is the right option to keep the information away from Internet predators.



FTP, commonly known as File Transfer Protocol, is an efficient communication protocol that serves all purposes of corporate communication. You can send large files irrespective of their format (text file, image file, audio file, video file, multimedia file, etc.) through Internet by keeping the privacy of the content. Advanced FTP service provider will allocate separate space in their server as you register for FTP hosting service. This space will remain private for your business and allow you to store information in the allocated space that you want to share with other.



Advantage of File Transfer Protocol



File transfer protocol comes with two major advantages – transmitting large digital files and securing the information. Large file size is the main barrier for sending digital information over the Internet. You can share information and transfer files in the following ways:



Sending files as attachment via Email



Uploading files on the FTP server to share with other parties



There is a drawback in the first option. Email does not always allow files, which are large in size. Moreover, a mail server doesn’t always support all files types. Some common file extension, which are restricted by the mail server:



‘.wav’, ‘.scr’, ‘.pif’, ‘.exe’, ‘.bat’, ‘.com’, ‘.lnk’, ‘.hta’, etc.



There is no restriction on file type in FTP hosting service. Therefore you can easily transfer files via FTP server.



Advanced FTP hosting services are the right option for Designers, Architects and Printers to share their files over the Internet. It is observed that image files are large in size and creates problem when sending them through Email. Designers or printers need to send layout or multimedia presentation in digital file format. Therefore, Advanced FTP is a suitable communication protocol to fulfill the business purpose of graphic artists and illustrators.



Printers, Architects and Designers need a communication protocol that can transfer their artworks as well as protect images and the multimedia presentations from unauthorized third party. If you are in printing and publishing or you are a designer, advanced FTP service allows you to transfer files protected by secret password. In other word, it can be said that you can transfer files by encrypting the content. This feature of advanced FTP hosting service comes with SSL (Secure Sockets Layer) or SSH (Secure Shell). You can store encrypted files in the FTP server and provide the password as a ‘key’ to the recipient to view the actual content of the file. Therefore, it is recommended to designers, architects or printers to use advanced FTP hosting service with added security feature for ultimate protection.



Transferring large files via advanced FTP



Graphic designers or architects take the help of advanced FTP hosting service to transfer large images, layouts or presentations to their clients. Digital files are uploaded on the FTP server through a remote computer that has access to the FTP site.



FTP hosting service provider’s will allocate you space on a server to store files. Moreover, they will provide you with option to create multiple FTP accounts for other users of your business process. Only the users who have the authority to access the allocated space can transfer files through their FTP account.



Remarkable features of FTP hosting service are:



Fast transfer with high speed connections

User friendly Control Panel to manage FTP accounts

SSL/TSL 128-bit data encryption

No upper limit of the file size

Suitable uptime

Remote monitoring

24/7 Technical Support



Advanced FTP hosting service comes with the feature – 128bit FTP encryption. This encryption feature is available in FTP hosting services that have security tools like – SSL or SSH. Users will encrypt the content of the file and upload that compressed file on the server. Another authorized user, who has the ‘key’, can download that file to his/her local drive. The recipient will use that key to decrypt the content.



About the Author: Mike Jewson is a Network Engineer with "InstantFTPsites.com". You can learn more about "FTP Hosting" services online at © 2006 InstantFTPsites http://www.InstantFTPsites.com You may reprint this articel online and in print provided the links remain live and the conten remain unaltered



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FTP Hosting - The Benefits Of Sending Large Files Via The Internet!

By Mike Jewson

Still using FedEx or UPS as the medium of transferring files to your client? Try FTP hosting service, this is an authentic way to transfer files over the Internet. In this era of Internet technology it is necessary to implement advanced communication protocol in the business system to enjoy efficient client communication. You can contact with your client or vendor through World Wide Web within a few second therefore, it is necessary to implement a technology that can enhance the business process and can run over the Internet.



Limitations of FedEx and UPS



With the help of software you can compress large files and convert the in digital format. Problems arise when we select an odd option to transfer the digital file to someone else, located at remote place. Initially we think about UPS or FedEx as the medium to carry the files. FedEx Express is an overnight currier service that provides local as well as oversea delivery. There are two types of freight services available in FedEx – domestic freight and international freight. However, FedEx does not cover all remote areas and considered as less preferred medium of transferring digital files. UPS, on the other hand, comes with the facility of global transportation services. UPS service is available in 200 countries and territories. If you are looking for transferring movie or image files located at remote area then it is recommended to use FTP hosting service.



Consider a situation where you have to send an image file to your client who is located at other part of the globe. The pressure will go up if you fail to transfer that file via Email. It is better not to take any chance by sending the file via FedEx or UPS. Only FTP hosting service can ensure transmission of the file to your client in the right time. Compared to FedEx or UPS, the cost of sending files via FTP hosting service is quite less. Moreover. FTP hosting service ensures privacy of the content and restricts unauthorized people from accessing them. Hears interesting? Find the advantages of FTP hosting service.



FTP Hosting Service



File Transfer Protocol, commonly known, as FTP is a communication protocol that supports transmission of all types of digital files over the Internet, irrespective of their size. Since the cost of transferring files is less under FTP hosting service, therefore people are selecting this in their business process as an efficient medium to communicate with clients and vendors. Further, no need to understand technical details. The design of FTP hosting service is so efficient and secure that anybody can handle process.



Advantages of FTP hosting service



The cost of transferring items depends upon the distance between the locations, weight of the product and selection of shipment type. This calculation applies to both FedEx and UPS service. For FTP hosting service there is no additional fee to transfer files via the FTP server. It is not authentic to send digital files via UPS or FedEx and pay big money for the transaction process. Since FTP hosting services are available at limited cost (monthly or yearly rentals) therefore, it is recommended to use FTP for transferring movies or images.



Image files, multimedia presentations are large in size, compared to general text files. With FTP hosting service you can transfer them in a compressed file format. Advanced FTP hosting service comes with the facility of 128-bit data encryption. This will encrypt the content of the digital file and restrict third party to access the actual data.



The process of transferring digital files through FTP hosting service is user friendly. Initially you have to register for a FTP server. FTP service provider will allocate you space on their server and provide you FTP accounts to communicate with the client. The remote computer will act like FTP Client and allow you to upload large digital files (movie, graphic images and multimedia presentation) on the allocated space of FTP server. The recipient will need FTP account and the authorization to access the FTP site (allocated space on the FTP server). Client, through his/her FTP account can download the digital files in the local drive. The entire process of transferring large media files will require few minutes if there exist fast Internet connection and sufficient space in the FTP site.



‘FTP hosting service’ is an efficient, secure and cost effective hosting service designed for all users. Try a free trial of FTP hosting service and experience a smart way of transferring large files over the Internet.



About the Author: Mike Jewson is a Network Engineer with "InstantFTPsites.com". You can learn more about "FTP Hosting" services online at © 2006 InstantFTPsites http://www.InstantFTPsites.com You may reprint this article online and in print provide the links remain live and the content remains unaltered.



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FTP Hosting - The Burdens Of Doing It Yourself!

By Mike Jewson

Looking for an efficient hosting service to communicate with clients and sending files over the Internet? There are two options – either you can arrange your own hosting service or can register for a professional FTP (File Transfer Protocol) hosting service. If you select ‘do it yourself’’ process you have to configure your own server with the help of necessary hosting software and hardware.



To set up your own hosting service for the business process you need to install a hosting server, hardware and software to support digital communication. In the ‘do it yourself’ process you have to install a server and make it accessible via Internet. This type of server is known as ‘Live Server’ and differs from other internal servers.



Other entities of your business process can communicate with each other through this live server, which will act like an FTP Server. You have to develop the hosting service inside your company that will work like a professional FTP hosting service. Therefore it is essential to create separate FTP accounts for the clients. Here you have to configure the ‘live server’ in such a way that your network administrator can easily manage the folders and files.



Server



It is recommended to buy a server appliance that supports hosting solution managed through a web browser interface. Apart from general features of the server, there are several other features:



Processor Type

Hard Drive

RAM

Remote Management

Data Transfer Rate

Data Security

Operating System

Technical Support



Apart from these you have to select an operating system for the hosting server. In general people use Windows or Linux as an operating system. Hard drive space of the hosting server matters, if you have sufficient space in the hard drive of your hosting server you can efficiently store large files, which you want to share with your clients.



FTP Software



How can you transfer files without FTP software? It is recommended to buy FTP server that is compatible with the operating system of your server. If the operating system of your hosting server is ‘Windows’ then you have to install FTP software compatible with Windows operating system. However, some hosting servers come with in-built FTP support.



You have to install the software on the server to configure your own hosting server and user accounts. Select FTP software, commonly known as FTP Client Software, based on following criteria:



Efficient file transfer protocol with features like – ‘Server – to – Server’ and/or ‘Local computer to another local computer’

User friendly site and file management

Automated file transfer with File Transfer scheduler

Secured connection with the facility of password protection

Firewall support

User friendly interface



Price of FTP software varies based on their features. For example, the price of FTP Performer 5 or 4 Power and FTP Broker are $397.00 and $425.00, respectively. However, you can manage FTP software at low cost. Serv – U, which is considered, as a popular FTP Server for Windows the pricing starts at $300.00 for a limited version!



Internet Connection



Finally you have to take the Internet connection from an authorized ‘Internet Service Provider’ (ISP). By taking Internet connection you can make your server ‘Live’, i.e., accessible by all. It is recommended to go for the option ‘dedicated line’ of an Internet Service Provider. Dedicated line will make your hosting server accessible round the clock. To ensure fast connection over the Internet, register for Internet connection that provides high bandwidth. The minimum requirement is 512Kbps.



Worried with the cost and complex process of configuring a hosting server for your business? FTP hosting service provides all the features of transferring large files over the Internet at reasonable cost.



FTP Hosting Service



FTP service provider will allocate server space on their server, where you can store the files to share information with your client. There are two components in FTP hosting service – FTP Server and FTP Client. FTP Client is a remote computer that connects with FTP Server through Internet. Each FTP hosting service provider comes with multiple hosting plans. You have to select a right plan that provides effective support to your business. Communications are done through private FTP accounts, which are allocated for a specified FTP server. Transferring files over the Internet, from one FTP account to another, is managed by FTP software. It is recommended to select an FTP hosting service that provides FTP software. However, you can also buy FTP software separately.



It is observed that the monthly or yearly cost of FTP hosting service is less than setting up a complete hosting server. The cost of configuring a live server depends on hardware and software, which you are buying to make the server active. On the other hand, you will find wide array of FTP hosting service at affordable cost. The selection of a hosting service depends upon the required components of hosting service. Therefore, make thorough research on the price and select FTP hosting service for your business process.



About the Author: Mike Jewson is a Network Engineer with "InstantFTPsites.com". You can learn more about "FTP Hosting" services online http://www.InstantFTPsites.com
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FTP Hosting For Printers

By Mike Jewson

Transferring large files over the Internet



Transferring large files (image and/or text) over the Internet is a common feature in any business process. An efficient communication protocol is needed in a business process to exchange text, image, multimedia presentation or other information with clients.



In general people use email to send large files as attachments by breaking them in several smaller parts. In such a situation, the recipients need to integrate those parts in a proper manner to view the right content. The process itself is very risky and terminates if the file size goes beyond the specified limit.



FTP hosting service can be the right option for printers to share information and to transfer files through World Wide Web. Since there is no upper limit of the file size, you can send large images and audio – visual presentations efficiently to the clients. Security of the content is another issue that you have to ensure when transferring a file from one location to another. FTP hosting service takes complete care of the privacy of content.



Why FTP for Printers



File Transfer Protocol is a suitable communication protocol for all types of printing and publishing firms. Printers use FTP as an efficient mode of transferring large files:



Brochure

Postcard

Business Card

Greeting Card

Poster

Catalog

Identity

Sticker and Banner



Most of these digital files contains images and are larger in size, compared to simple text files. Moreover file types can differ from static image to dynamic image.



Having a problem sending large flash files as banners or multimedia enabled greeting card through Email? Try an FTP Hosting service and experience the fast communication in the business process. Consider the situation of Die Cutting service, where you have to provide a large Photoshop file to your customer… overnight! If you have FTP hosting service it will take a few minutes to transfer that large image.



Printers are taking help of new designing tools to reduce their effort and improve the quality of the products. With the help of software you can create 2D and/or 3D images, layouts or multimedia presentation. At the same time, you have to select an efficient communication protocol to ensure secure and uninterrupted ‘business to customer’ (B2C) or ‘business to business’ (B2B) communication.



Features of FTP hosting service



FTP hosting services comes with two components – FTP Server and FTP Client. FTP hosting service provider will allocate you required space to store files, which you want to share with your client. Files are uploaded on the FTP server through FTP Client. To upload files on the FTP server you have to provide a user name and password. The client on the other end can access the server through another FTP account.



Following are some common features of FTP hosting services:



Unlimited Storage in the FTP server

Private FTP Accounts

FTP Software to upload files, download files and manage the FTP site

Customized Directories

Daily backups of data

Unlimited Bandwidth

24/7 Technical Support



Getting FTP hosting service for printing business



You have to select the storage size when registering for the FTP hosting service. There is no upper limit of the storage size. It is recommended to select the right FTP hosting service provider in the Internet who are offering the storage size based on your need. Initially, FTP hosting service provider will allow you a trial period at limited cost.



Selection of a right FTP hosting service matters for printers. FTP Server provides ultimate security and offers wide array of useful features for printers. Transferring designs, layouts or audio – video presentations require secured medium to keep the content private. Secured FTP Hosting Service comes with the features like – password protected content and encryption. You can protect images and the content password-protected content and transfers the files in a compressed file format.



About the Author: Mike Jewson is a Network Engineer with "InstantFTPsites.com". You can learn more about "FTP Hosting" services online at © 2006 InstantFTPsites http://www.InstantFTPsites.com You may reprint this article online and in print provided the links remain live and the content remain unaltered.



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The World Of Computer Game Design

By Morgan Hamilton

A career in computer game design the absolute heaven for any hard-core gamer. Isn't it everyone's dream to do what they love and get paid for it? And how many of you out there that can show a computer games have had great ideas of how you can improve on the games that you were playing? I know I have, about a million times.



If a career in computer game design is something that you are mulling over and I have good news and I have bad. The good news is that it is a huge industry and is growing year over year. The bad news is that computer game design takes a lot of programming skills which means you had better be a very smart cookie and be prepared to work very hard in school learning the various skills that you will need.



You want to start with a degree in computer science, which is much easier said than done. Of the six friends I had in college that were computer science majors, only one of them stuck with it to the end. It is a grueling major filled with advanced math classes and seemingly endless computer programming exercises.



Some people actually enjoy programming, so if you're one of them that a career in computer game design would be perfect for you. A real affection for computer games themselves would certainly go a long way as well. My college friend that got his computer science degree is currently working for a well knowing game design company, and loves it. But he will be the first one to tell you that it is nothing like what he expected.



Some computer games that are produced today are so incredibly complex that they take years to create. In the infancy of the game industry, computer game design teams often consisted of just a few people. Today, many games have several production teams consisting of up to hundreds of different people working simultaneously on different aspects of the game. If you do prove to be a capable programmer than a here in computer game design will reward you handsomely. Veteran programmers who have already completed several game designs can pretty much call their own shots as far as salary and overall creativity. It is an art and science.



If programming isn't something that appeals to then you still can work in the design industry. Programmers themselves are the king of the hill and the most sought after, but talented artists and creative writers can be attractive employees to game producers. Graphic designers and artists contribute a great deal to computer game design. Many computer game designs also feature actors to do the voice overs of the game's characters as well. There's a whole lot that goes into making these babies.



About the Author: Morgan Hamilton offers his findings and insights regarding the world of compute software. You can get interesting information here at http://www.computersoftwareinfosite.com/computer-software/computer-software-information/computer-game-design.html



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FTP Hosting For Transcription

By Mike Jewson

FTP Hosting – an overview



The term FTP stands for ‘File Transfer Protocol’. In this era of Internet technology transferring files over the Internet is a common phenomenon. FTP hosting service allows us to upload as well as download large amount of files by keeping necessary security measures. If you are unaware about FTP – you are missing something that can simplify the file exchange process of your business.



FTP hosting service comes with storage system where you can upload the copy of a file, irrespective of the size and content. This storage acts as FTP server or FTP Site. You can transfer the files efficiently from one location to another through this FTP server. People who are authorized to access your FTP server can download or delete the files.



Be it a small firm or large organization, companies are taking complete advantage of Internet technology in their business process. In general people are familiar with HTTP (Hyper Text Transfer Protocol), which comes with a set of rules for transferring files, irrespective of the content (text, image, video, audio, multimedia etc.). With the pace of time, people started realizing the importance of File Transfer Protocol in business process.



FTP hosting for business process



How can you think about transferring files in a secure mode without FTP? In a business process you need to exchange information from one node to another. That information may be simple text, image or a huge multimedia. In a business process you need to exchange files with vendors as well as clients and there is nothing better than FTP hosting service that takes complete care of your objectives. Be it a heavy engineering sector or a busy law firm, you can efficiently exchange the files through FTP hosting service.



FTP hosting works like blessing in Transcription business. Compared to other business processes, the size of each file is large in transcription business. Moreover, you need to exchange files efficiently with clients and transcriptionists. In a transcription business you need to maintain several accounts for the transcriptionists and clients. With FTP hosting service you can easily take manage the distribution of files between them. FTP hosting service not only allows you to exchange large files over the Internet but also provides the facility of creating multiple accounts to simplify the business process.



Internet based Transcription Business



The nature of transcription business has changed with the introduction of BPO (business Process Outsourcing) or KPO (Knowledge Process Outsourcing) in the business sector. Today transcription business services are done over the Internet to increase the pace of business process.



In general, we can categorize transcription services in five different sectors – Medical (Medical Transcription Services), Legal (Legal Transcription Services), General Business (Business Transcription Services), Digital (Digital Transcription Services) and Word Processing (Word Processing Services).



In Medical Transcription Service you have to transcribe medical reports, patient progress reports, reviews for the clients. Legal Transcription Services, on the other hand transcribes comprehensive legal reports and general correspondences. Digital Transcription Services create transcribed documents from audio files. In Word Processing Services you have to create research papers, manuals, database, desktop publishing and other types of documents. Therefore, FTP hosting service is necessary to exchange files and transcribed files between clients and transcriptionists.



Security feature in Transcription Business



Security is an important issue in Internet based transcription business. You need to maintain separate accounts for the transcriptionists to interact with the clients. FTP hosting services comes with the facility of separate FTP account. You can create as many accounts as you want for the transcriptionists. Each transcriptionist will interact with the client through his/her own account. Since passwords are unique for FTP accounts, therefore you can easily restrict transcriptionists to access the files from others’ FTP account. Moreover, a user cannot delete any file from FTP site without proper username and password.



Advantages of FTP Hosting in Transcription Business



By implementing FTP hosting service in the business, you can efficiently manage transcription services and improve the speed of the business process by maintaining required security. Other than transferring large files from one computer to another through FTP site, you can also send Emails with large attachments. Some common features are – Sending mail with attachment to several people (clients and transcriptionists). FTP service acts like magic for people who are using slow dial up links. They can efficiently download large files from FTP site irrespective of the dial up speed.



Finally, FTP hosting services comes with a web based interface through which you can administer all the FTP accounts in your business process. You have to provide separate FTP user account and password to each client to upload or download files from the FTP server. By this one client will never view the transcribed documents, which are uploaded in FTP site for other clients.



About the Author: Mike Jewson is a Network Engineer with "InstantFTPsites.com". You can learn more about "FTP Hosting" services online at http://www.InstantFTPsites.com © 2006 InstantFTPsites You may reprint this artilce online and in print provided the links remain live and the content remains unaltered.



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Sunday, September 10, 2006

eConnect: Microsoft Dynamics GP Integrations – Overview

By Andrew Karasev

Microsoft Dynamics GP, also often referred as Microsoft Great Plains or Great Plains Dynamics may be considered as very good ERP platform, ready for custom logic and integrations with legacy systems. eConnect is one of the tools of choice to be deployed in the case of creating and moving objects to Microsoft Dynamics GP.

• Master Records. Accounts, Customers, Vendors, Employees are typical master records. eConnect can create, update and remove these records. eConnect methods first try to validate business logic, so eConnect should be preferred over direct SQL scripting (trying to add or change records directly in Microsoft Dynamics SQL tables)

• Transactions. eConnect also allows you to create or modify so-called work transactions. However eConnect doesn’t typically go beyond work transactions, so-called open or historical transactions should be created through Microsoft Dynamics GP posting, moving to history, voiding, etc. routines and this requires MS Dynamics GP operation intervention

• Beyond eConnect. There are multiple options for you to deploy Microsoft Dexterity to automate such processes as posting. Imagine, you are moving daily eCommerce sales from your third party e-Commerce system to Great Plains and want them to be posted automatically. In this case you can deploy eConnect to bring work Sales Invoices and Payments and then you deploy Microsoft Dexterity Posting server to trigger posting all the way to the General Ledger

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Keeping Up With Technical Change

By Bruce Taylor

For you engineers out there -

I can tell you your worst nightmare: you go to bed one night as a competent secure in your technical competence, and you wake up the next morning as a technological dinosaur. All your strong technologies are now quaint footnotes in the history books and you're faced with re-learning a whole new repertoire of technologies. You open up the morning paper and you see a want ad like this:

Job Description:

As a member of a project team responsible for designing, coding, unit/integration testing web services applications using Java, XML, or SQL. Understanding of system development lifecycle processes and rapid development cycles with the ability to independently code, test and implement solutions based on user requirements and as directed by project leadership. Ability to plan, manage and lead UML design sessions. Exceptional user facing skills and client relationship skills.

Required Experience/Technologies:

Bachelor's degree in Computer Science or other physical science
7+ years of professional Java development experience with at least 3 years J2EE
J2EE, XML, SQL, hands-on database development (JDBC)

Jakarta Struts (Front Controller with JSP's) or EJB2.0
At least two of the following technologies: SOAP, SAX/DOM, JMS,
XML Schema or DTD, Stateless Session Beans
5 years UML design modeling experience
mandatory, RUP, UML
WebSphere certification preferred



How in the world did this happen - how did you fall so far behind do quickly? Well, don't feel too bad, the technology changes so quickly that you're running the Red Queen's race: you have to run as hard as you can to stay in the same place, and to make any progress you have to run twice as fast. On the average, major technologies change every eighteen months, and only a few of the new ones have any staying power. If it's any comfort, I've been away from active engineering for sixteen months, and it's difficult even to read the technical literature any more, let alone be productive.

So, what can you do about this? I offer three recommendations, all of them hard to implement:

Stay Informed


Don't let yourself fall behind! Spend at least 4 hours per week keeping yourself up to date by reading technical journals or survey books (the O'Reilly series are excellent) so that you're at least aware of emerging technologies. Make learning part of your job!
Learn to spot winners and losers


You can't learn every new technologies, so you have to be selective and choose the ones that seem to have some staying power (three or more years) and those that are fads of the moment.
Learn to learn fast


You have to become very good at picking up new technologies on the fly, with minimal training. Luckily, if you've been in the business for long this won't be very hard, because most new technologies are simply repackaging of old concepts that you're already familiar with.

As I said, none of these is easy, but if you're to have a multi-decade career in engineering you're going to have to learn to deal with constant and accellerating technology change. Sorry, but that's just the way it will be.

About the Author

Bruce Taylor is the Owner and Principle of Unison Coaching, and provides corporate and executive coaching to a wide variety of businesses including engineering, human resource, consulting, and recruiting firms. Mr Taylor has extensive background in Psychology, Human Resources, and Software Engineering. He holds a Masters degree in Computer Science from Duke University, a Masters in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts, and a Certificate in Job Stress and Healthy Workplace Design from the University of Massachusetts. He can be reached at http://www.unisoncoaching.com or bruce_taylor@unisoncoaching.com.

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Maintaining My Computer

By Donnie Edge

Using a computer at home and work have almost become a requirement for most people.

The internet has changed the way that people do almost everything from online purchasing to gathering information.

Unfortunately, every great invention also has its problems. In my opinion, the biggest problems with the internet involve the continued growth of viruses and spyware.

As the internet and the technology that drives it have increased, the problems
involving viruses and spyware have also increased.

Viruses used to be the main problem related to the internet. While the majority
of viruses are not terribly destructive, they can be both annoying and somewhat
troubling to most computer users. Spyware has increased tremendously in the last few years and seems be getting worse and more prevalent by the day.

Fortunately, you can do something about both viruses and spyware. The best way
to avoid viruses and spyware is to take action to prevent or remove the viruses
or spyware before they become a problem.

There are free antivirus and spyware removers that you can download from the
internet. I personally recommend AVG Free and Avast for the antivirus and
Spybot and Adaware SE for the spyware removal programs. All of the programs
are free for the home user.

One thing to keep in mind is that antivirus and spyware programs need to be updated in order for them to do a good job. This seems to be a problem for some computer users, although most programs do a good job of making the updating as easy as possible.

You really need to look at your computer like your car. Neither will run forever if
you don't do some routine maintenance.

Just remember, a computer that is on the internet without antivirus and spyware
software is like a car that never has its oil changed. It might run, but it won't run
very well.

More information about viruses and spyware can be found on my website www.ramdge.com.

Donnie Edge
Ram Computer Systems
www.ramdge.com

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Photoshop Engraver Plug-in Filter Review

By Svetlana Chernousova

Engraver is a very useful Photoshop-compatible plug-in, which allows to turn the source picture into an ancient engraving, lithograph, pencil sketch, etc. You are able to get really stylish and professionally made masterpieces in a very simple way and without taking much pains. This product can become very useful to computer artists, designers and those people, who want to create the real computer art masterpieces.

Engraver allows to turn the source picture into a graphical image consisting of lines and hatches of various width and curvature. Those can be either straight lines, or waves, or different types of concentric circles and spirals. What is more, you can also present the source photo in the form of a set of dots or circles of various sizes. In that way the picture will be styled after a newspaper print or an original cliché for the offset printing.

Engraver not only can create the black-and-white engravings. You can choose one from the several possible colour scheme variants. When setting up the parameters for this module you are able to change the graphical result you get greatly. This feature allows you to entertain manifold possibilities in your oeuvre.

Engraver possesses a very simple and intuitively understandable user interface. Thanks to that it is a pleasure to work with the product. Nothing distracts you from the creative process, and you can concentrate all your forces and attention on the work. For your convenience the package includes a great number of the previously saved parameters (presets), so that you can use them to increase the speed of your work.

Engraver is a commercial product. Despite the pleasantly low price it is a very professional product. If you become its possessor, you will get the manufacturer's technical support as well as various sets of Photoshop actions, documents, lessons, etc.

Engraver newest version was released 17, August 2006. Mac and Win versions are available. To download and buy this product is easy from author's http://www.alphaplugins.com/products/products.php?menu=get_prod_id&prod_id=2&p_menustate= product page. Today price is US$20.

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Convert Videos to iPod with the Cucusoft iPod Video Converter Software

By James Preston

In October 2005 Apple® Computers introduced the first iPod® capable of playing videos and movies. The small, lightweight MP3 player was not only capable of holding literally thousands of songs and audio files, but it was also capable of storing videos and movies to watch on its small color screen.

For the next several months leading up to the 2005 Christmas holiday season, the Video iPod® received an abundance of media attention. It quickly became one of the hottest selling holiday gifts. Consumers loved the original iPod because it gave them the ability to carry their entire music collection with them wherever they went in one small, lightweight battery-powered device. Now, it seemed they would be able do the same with their movie collections.

There was one small problem. Unlike in the music versions, Apple® did not include an option to rip movies to play on the Video iPod. Many consumers were frustrated when they got their new Video iPods®, but didn’t have any video files to play on them.

Recognizing there would be a demand for a simple solution to this problem, a small software development company called Cucusoft Technologies introduced its first iPod video converter software just weeks after the first Video iPod® hit store shelves.

The software, called the iPod Video Converter, was an instant success. It allowed consumers to quickly and easily convert any movie to play on their Video iPod®. In addition to converting movies, it also converted files in other formats such as DivX, XVid, MOV, RM, RMVB, MPEG, WMV, AVI and others to the Video iPod format.

Although other software companies also launched similar iPod® Video converter products around this time, Cucusoft’s product was one of the most popular due to its simplicity of use. The entire process only took a few minutes. Consumers simply chose the file to convert, then pressed the “convert” button and moments later a new file is ready to upload to the Video iPod®.

The Cucusoft iPod Video Converter is economically priced at under $40. Consumers can also get a free trial of the product to make sure it is capable of converting the files they need before they actually pay for it.

James Preston runs the popular iPod Video Converter resource guide. Do you have questions about the Cucusoft iPod Video Converter, the Lenogo iPod Video Converter or some other iPod video conversion product?

Visit iPodVideoConverters.com today
for detailed product reviews, tutorials and much more!

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Why Having a Flash Intro Is So Popular

By Maxine Winters

If you want to really grab the attention of web surfers poking around on web sites, you need a powerful intro page- one that will keep potential customers coming back for more. You need a Flash intro to your site!

Have you ever seen a scary movie from the 1950’s, complete with the most pathetic special effects ever created? You know the ones that I’m talking about, they have flying saucers from outer space that were crafted by gluing a camera lens cap to fishing line and dangling it in front of the movie camera. Now imagine the exact same movie made with today’s computer generated images and other special effects. That’s pretty much the difference between a plain introduction web page using basic HTML and a Flash intro.

In the simplest terms available, having a Flash intro to your website is popular because it’s not boring. If you had never seen a Flash intro, you would be completely “Wowed!” by it. If all you had ever seen was a Flash intro, and saw a plain HTML intro, you might not laugh at it (like you’d probably chuckle at the effects of a 1950’s sci-fi movie), but you might not frequent that site as often as you would a site with the latest Flash software. Why not? Because it’s just not as entertaining (or as much fun), that’s why!

If you’re not one of the computer-savvy website builders out in the realm of the World Wide Web, or a presentation developer at a Fortune 500 company, think about this: Over 90% of all computers in the world have Flash Player installed in them to adequately view websites and other mediums that incorporate Flash into their pages. This means that there is an obvious demand for this cartoony type of animation, and the demand is only going to increase.

Keeping all of this in mind, sales representatives find that using Flash intros to highlight the features of their products or brand, which encourages the customers to stay focused on the positives. Usually this works out well for the sales reps, for their customers usually get quite engaged in the presentation.

Other uses for Flash: Flash creates an interesting array of websites and animation with ActionScript (a computer program language), and has done so since the beginning days of Flash 2. Vectors and raster graphics add to the versatility of the program, aiding in the creation of a more interactive experience for all who choose to view or create with it. Flash is saved under .swf (small web file) filing extensions.

Maxine Winters recommends Flash Text Animation Builder to easily create an attractive flash intro.

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Choosing An Effective Software Solution

By Terri Roeslmeier

Examine, for a second, the thought process of the staffing software buyer. It’s amazing how many times buyers will say it has to be an ASP or “web based” before they ask any questions about what the software can do. The thinking is to pare down the systems before taking an in-depth look at any of them. The idea is to save time, as there are too many systems out there to be able to evaluate them all. So, they eliminate a number of systems and then take a close look at the survivors – trying to pick the one that best fits their actual business need. The error in this process is subtle. It must be since so many good business people seem to fall into the same trap. By using a non-functionality based criteria to winnow out possible solutions they’re left choosing from amongst systems that may not meet their actual business needs. If an integrated payroll and billing solution is needed, why look only at systems that don’t offer this capability? Yet this is exactly what would have happened.

Here are some things to consider before embarking on a new software selection project:
Define your real requirements. To do this, you must identify where your pain truly lies. It’s unlikely that your biggest system problem is that you’re not running on the web. More likely there’s some kind of bottle neck in your process. Maybe it’s taking too long to do pay/bill. Maybe your contact management is inadequate. Or maybe your current system doesn’t offer enough search capability. Whatever it is, this should be the first filter any new system must pass through. A simple check list, maybe a dozen or so items, will probably eliminate 90% of the system flak. In other words, get to know yourself first. Do internal needs analysis. Include everyone in the organization who will be touched by the new software. Evaluate software based on what it can actually do for your company.Look at platforms. This is second because the platform doesn’t make the system and, in general, anything made for Windows or the web is going to meet the basic platform requirements. You probably want to stay away from systems based on older or less common operating systems like Unix or Dos and you probably want to restrict your choices (if possible) to systems based on a real database like SQL Server, but beyond that it doesn’t matter that much.Contact potential vendors and collect information on the remaining systems. You’ll learn a lot about a potential partner by how they respond to your inquiry. Could they be reached easily? Were they responsive? Did they listen and ask questions? How a company behaves during the sales process is a pretty good indicator of how they’ll behave after the sale. Remember: at this stage of the game, they need you more than you need them. This will flip flop after you become a client. If their follow up was only fair in the sales process, imagine what it their support will be like.


Clearly, this makes sense. It’s always better to work backwards from the answer. You’re more likely to be satisfied with your decision if you’ve opted for software that meets more of your needs.

Terri Roeslmeier is president of Automated Business Designs, Inc., software developer of Ultra-Staff, a full-featuered staffing software solution with components for front office, back office and the web. www.abd.net

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Outlook: Not Just for Email! Using Your Outlook Contacts

By Janet Barclay

If you use Outlook for your email, chances are you have a number,
possibly a large number, of email addresses stored in the Contacts
section. You've probably discovered that you can address messages
to one or more of your contacts several different ways with just
a click of the mouse. But if this is the only way you use your
Contacts, you're not using the feature to its full capacity. Here
are a few other ways you can tap into the full power of Outlook.

* Create a contact from an email message

Drag and drop a message onto the Contacts folder, and a new
Contact will automatically be created, using the name and email
address from the message header. The message body will appear in
the Notes section, which can be a valuable reminder of why the
person contacted you in the first place. If the sender has
provided their website address, mailing address, telephone
number, or other important information, you can copy and paste
this information into the appropriate fields.

* Assign categories to your contacts

If you have a lot of contacts, it is very easy to lose track of
people, including prospective clients. By assigning one or more
categories to each contact, you can easily locate the names of
the people you need to contact for a specific reason.

Outlook comes with several standard categories, but you will
likely want to create some of your own, based on your individual
needs. Click on Edit - Categories - Master Category List, and
type in your new category. Any categories added to the Master
Category List will also be available in the Outlook Calendar and
Tasks sections.

* View a map of your contact's location

If you're going to visit a client for the first time, or you
don't remember how to get there, you'll love this feature! When a
contact record is open, click on the Display Map of Address
button and you will be connected to MSN Maps, and a map of the
contact's address will be displayed. Of course, this will only
work if you have entered a street address! Unfortunately,
mapping is only functional for addresses within the USA.

* Print an address book

Many people who use a paper planner or address book don't see a
need to enter any details in Outlook other than the name and
email address. Not only is it very easy to print out an address
book right from Outlook, it offers a number of options for print
layouts, including layouts for popular planners such as Day
Runner, Day Timer, and Franklin Covey products.

By using Outlook as your address book, you don't have to put up
with messy changes and corrections, or spend time copying out
information every year, or whenever you replace your address book.
Instead, you can just print new pages from Outlook. You can even
specify which contacts you want printed if you don't need them
all.

* Add a picture

Outlook 2003 has a new feature which allows you to add a picture
to a contact record. To some this may seem like more of a toy
than a tool, but if remembering faces is not your strong point,
you'll appreciate being able to view a photo before you head off
to meet someone!

Janet Barclay, Organized Assistant, offers a variety of professional quality services to support entrepreneurs and other individuals who are overwhelmed by the demands and technology of the 21st century. For further information or to request a subscription to her monthly ezine, The Organized Assistant Resource, please visit her website at http://www.organizedassistant.com.

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Dexterity: Microsoft Dynamics GP Development

By Andrew Karasev

Microsoft Great Plains Dexterity customization, software development, modifications, reporting, legacy customizations upgrade

Great Plains Dexterity or current name Microsoft Dexterity was designed as programming language and software development environment for Great Plains Software Dynamics – one of the pioneering graphical ERP/Accounting applications back in earlier 1990th. Since then Dexterity customizations were very popular through 90th and even nowadays. Currently Microsoft Dynamics GP provides more options to developers: eConnect with XML Web Services, Xtender and others. However Dexterity and Microsoft Dynamics GP source code programming is still crucial for so-called fat client Microsoft Dynamics GP user workstation modifications

• Alternate Dexterity Forms. You can customize original Great Plains forms, such as Sales Order Processing Entry – this is very powerful customization technique, however alternate forms were always the customization upgrade major “budget eaters”. Probably better approach is Dexterity triggers and popup or extra menu controlled forms

• Dexterity Cursors. Current version 9.0 of Microsoft Dynamics GP supports only one DB platform – Microsoft SQL Server, but if we look at the history – one of the Dexterity paradigms was database independence, this is why Dexterity has its own cursors. Dexterity cursors were very helpful for Btrieve/Pervasive SQL and Ctree/Fairomm databases. For the reason of optimization, it is probably better to avoid Dexterity cursor technique and use SQL Stored Procs with aggregation technique (SELECT statement)

• Customization Upgrade. Dexterity Customizations upgrade has several key points to check: Alternate forms, changes in DYNAMICS and company database tables, introduced in the new version, custom reports re-import and reapplying custom logic

• Dexterity Developers. These folks were mostly trained in 1990th and feasibility to train new developers in Dexterity is questionable, so probably Dexterity customization or its upgrade should be trusted to consultants

If you want us to do the job, please call us: 1-866-528-0577, help@albaspectrum.com

Andrew Karasev is Dexterity programmer in Alba Spectrum Group ( http://www.albaspectrum.com ) Microsoft Dynamics GP consulting company, based in Chicago, IL and Houston, TX. We serve corporate customers in the following industries: Aerospace & Defense, Medical & Healthcare, Distribution & Logistics, Hospitality, Banking & Finance, Wholesale & Retail, Chemicals, Oil & Gas, Placement & Recruiting, Advertising & Publishing, Textile, Pharmaceutical, Non-Profit, Beverages, Conglomerates, Apparels, Durables, Manufacturing and having locations in multiple states and internationally.

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